Hello, I'm Arlette since more than 8 years the
founder and drive of the Sensual massage studio.
As a steady visitor of the massage studio you
will know that I am constantly looking to push you to new ways to approach
and challenge your body.
That is only natural because I am on a path
of personal growth and transformation myself. That way my work stays
exciting to me and challenging for you. The Sensual massage studio has a goal to help to
you (re-)discover your most 'sensual you'. In other words to help you sharpen
your senses and translate that experience into a deep sense of liveliness
and pleasure.
My background is Taoist (I've done over 1000
hours of classes in the past 4 years and I still feel like a beginner, there is
so much to learn and to discover). The Taoist practice is unique and has nothing
to do with Tantra even though people who copy my site think it has. There is a
substantial difference in energy flow, not to mention that the real Tantra
practice will encourage you men to ejaculate as often as you can, the Tao does
the opposite and will help you save energy through learning you how to work with
your internal energy flow and thus have fully integrated and easily controllable
body orgasms; no cosmic hard to control outer body orgasms that work with
unrefined sexual energy and make people very sick.
As you can read I am NOT a fan of Tantra and
I also believe that nobody in Belgium who says that they offer Tao massage with
prostate has my ongoing experience. I say this because I find that the tendency
in the market is to get instant gratification and to look for quick and easy
solutions for everything. If I can sell this Tao/prostate formula, the other
girls can do just the same. NOT true! But to understand that you guys will have
to overcome the need for instant gratification yourselves! Most of you guys are
easy targets blinded by beautiful girls or bodies and you all fail to look for
what is really helping you grow bigger than your cock. Well it is fun you may
say! Short minded and very shallow not result focused fun. I do hope there are
some guys out there who seek for more depth in their lives. Really, nothing is
as much fun as knowing how your body works and that takes guidance and personal
practice. I'm a very sweet woman, but I'm demanding and that is often
misunderstood as bossy or pushy. I love clarity and I am demanding because I
care! You pay me to learn you something, so I find it only natural that you do
the practice that I ask you to do to make your investment profitable in every
sense of the word. The day I stop pushing you towards new horizons I quit my
job. I push you to new horizons because I do it myself and it is sweet and
rewarding. Slow down and take a journey with me into the aliveness of the Tao.
IMPORTANT
to know: A sexual discharge seems to be the ultimate way
to relax and pleasure a man but the Tao teaches us that playing with sexual
energy (for both men and women) from a place of stress, sadness, anger,
fear, etc. instead of love and harmony will only emphasize these negative
emotions and do more damage than good. STRESS AND TENSION CANNOT BE RESOLVED
WITH SEX OR ORGASMS. For that reason I pay a lot of
attention to your emotional well being first to avoid extra trauma. Once I have
helped you clear these obstacles I will teach you how to cultivate your sexual
energy in the right way. Self-cultivation is the first step to true freedom!
It is important that you see your visit as the beginning of a
transforming experience. If you like this offer I recommend that you do a
few sessions and in time even attend to some of our Tao courses.
My offer is unique in Belgium and visiting
my place can have very deep consequences! For that reason I ask you to come to
me with a deep sense of trust and the willingness to relax and to transform
yourself into a more vital and vigorous you. You will find me in the same
state of mind and very helpful to get you started on your new
adventure.
I trust that by now you understand that you're
not looking at the website of just another massage parlor offering body-to-body massage by a naked
masseuse guaranteeing you quick climaxes.
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Practical
information and house rules
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Please
read all the pages that concern you to inform yourself before you contact me.
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Please note
that it is not the intention to spoil me intimately. I will not take
off my clothes and my task consists in guiding you during this intense
personal experience. To carry
out this exercise successfully, I will be fully concentrated on your
pleasure. So bear in mind this rule at all times. If you show me respect,
you will get to know me as an enthusiastic and devoted masseuse.
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Should you have certain
expectations, please share them in advance to avoid disappointments. Your
desires may not be mine and things should be clear before we start a session! Otherwise come with an open mind
and without expectations or go elsewhere.
- Please make sure that you understand the
content of what I offer by reading the webpages that concern you including these rules. I will be happy to answer
supplementary questions
that are not already treated on these pages.
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Opening hours (Mo-Fr, NOT on the weekend!),
I
teach classes so I'm not available all week long at any time and not on the
weekend. I can shift a
little (one
hour earlier or later) with these hours, if
you call me on time, not last minute! Please also remind yourself
that I do have a private life!
Monday
to Thursday 10:00-19:00
Friday
10:00-16:00
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Phone calls are taken between 9AM and 7PM,
you can mail at any other moment of the day or when the phone is switched
off during massage sessions. You may also leave a message in my phone box. I
will call back when I'm done massaging.
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Always mention your phone-number when you
call or mail me. Also
when possible please BOOK ON TIME and only make an appointment when you intent to
keep it!
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If you cannot make it, inform me at least the day before, otherwise have
the decency to pay for your missed appointment! Missed appointments
can be paid through PayPal, into my account info@chinesscentre.be
This work is extremely
important, consider yourself lucky to get this kind of service it is very
unique in this format.
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Q&A
What
does sensuality mean in this context?
Sensuality is
often confused with sex. 'Sensuality' has an obvious connection with our
sensorial system. It is my goal to help you to sharpen your sensorial
experiences. To be able to enjoy this you have to get involved in your own
bodily experience. This is in fact a basic rule for everyone who really
wants to enjoy a massage to the fullest.
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Is
there an exchange during the session?
In the first
place, the sessions are a personal gift, one of those rare moments that you
can get spoiled to the fullest and free yourself spiritually, because you
are the receiving party. It’s all about you and I am your guide during
this extraordinary experience. Many times people ask me if there is an
exchange between the giver and the receiver. Yes there is, a profound
exchange that is expressed as a loving and powerful ‘guidance’. Your
pleasure does not only lie in my hands, with your cooperation I will help
you to discover your deepest delight, so you can practise by yourself later
on. This kind of exchange is the only sound way to interact without
compromising anybody.
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How
far do you go when you are touching the private parts?
Before starting
a session we discuss your wishes and how we are going to approach it. I will
always respect your wishes. In most cases
though the private parts will be touched/massaged to help you in expanding
your consciousness. We connect the heart energy with the energy of the
sexual organs. We link the breathing to the sexual organs, etc.
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Are
you naked during the massage?
I am dressed during the massage. Nudity can be exciting, but only through visual impulses
you won’t reach new horizons. If you have a problem with that I would
like to ask you to focus your attention during the massage to what you do
have and to open yourself up for a new experience and not to what you think
it is you need. If nevertheless you are disappointed after the session, then
you probably didn’t understand what we have to offer or you haven’t been
clear from the start about your expectations.
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Can
we learn these techniques/massages?
My school organizes group courses in the Tao. More info on this
website or www.chinesscentre.be
If you really
want to grow a deeper sexual/sensual awareness for yourself and your partner,
please grasp the opportunity to grow into it as a part of your
‘complete’ process of growth and not as something separate. Working with
your sexual energy will not only give you more pleasure, but also a
healthier, longer and more energetic life. But you will have to put in the
effort.
